Women’s Codependency Group
A virtual relational group for women ready to stop disappearing in love
You’re successful. Insightful. Capable.
And yet in relationships?
You over-function. Over-give. Over-accommodate.
You anticipate everyone else’s needs and quietly abandon your own.
You tell yourself you’re “just empathetic.”
But you’re exhausted.
This group is for women who are ready to look honestly at relational patterns — without shame, without spiritual bypassing, and without being told to simply “love yourself more.”
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This group is designed primarily for women ages 27–45, though it’s not exclusive
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Feel responsible for other people’s emotions
Struggle to ask for what you need
Fear being “too much” or “not enough”
Stay in relationships longer than you should
Attract emotionally unavailable or inconsistent partners
Lose yourself in caretaking, fixing, or managing
Identify as queer and have never fully seen yourself reflected in traditional codependency models
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This is a queer-affirming space.
All relationship structures and identities are welcome.We will explore codependency through a relational and nervous-system-informed lens — not through rigid, moralizing frameworks.
Our Process
What Makes This Different
You won’t just talk about your patterns.
You’ll see them show up — gently — in the group space. And that’s where the real work happens. Group is where codependency gets interrupted in real time.
Our Focus
Attachment and anxious pursuit
Over-functioning and emotional labor
The fantasy bond vs. real intimacy
People-pleasing as a nervous system strategy
Boundaries without aggression or withdrawal
Tolerating conflict without collapsing
Building relationships that are mutual, not managerial
Structure
Virtual group (HIPAA-compliant platform)
Weekly 90-minute sessions
Closed cohort model
6–8 women max
Mix of teaching and facilitated processing
You will be encouraged — not forced — to participate. Growth happens in engagement, but safety comes first.
Investment
$70/ weekly session
OON + Sliding Scales Spots Available
Limited spots available to preserve depth and cohesion.
victoria towery, lpc-associate
About the Facilitator
I’m Victoria, a licensed therapist specializing in relational patterns, attachment wounds, and love addiction.
This Might Be Right for You If…
You’re tired of intellectualizing your patterns and ready to actually shift them.
You’re ready to stop performing “easy” and start practicing real.
You want relationships that feel mutual — not earned.